Another anonymous asked recently:
When you say: "My message is more along the line of: You are a wonderful human being. I care about you. I see you. I want you to be happy. And if this means I have to spank your naked butt every day for the rest of your life, to make sure that the message sinks in, I am more than willing to do that for you."
Are these things you are actually saying out loud to the man? Or is it just something you are thinking? If you're not actually saying them, how is the message getting conveyed to the man, especially if there is humiliation and pain involved, as is typically the case in any spanking scenario?
I am telling the pretty boy constantly how pretty he is. He sometimes tries to argue with me about it, and he is all like: "I am not pretty". But I always interrupt him immediately and tell him to shut up ;-) And he is smart enough to follow my orders :-)
Thanks to Skype, I have watched him for hours by now. In various vanilla and kink situations. And I always like what I see. I always like it A LOT! He is just beautiful.
The other day I was already in bed, about to fall asleep, when he still had some work to do, like drawing sketches or something (not really, lol, but I won't tell you what he does in life). I asked him to let me watch him while he is working. Nothing spectacular was happening. He was doing his work, fully dressed, and I was lying in my bed, ready to sleep. But it was a very peaceful and calming and in a way intimate moment. I enjoyed it a lot. And I told him so constantly. He asked a couple of times: "You sure you wanna watch this? " And me, I was all like "Yesssssss, pleaaaaase" lol.
I cannot really speak for him, but I do believe that he is fully aware of the fact that I think he is a magnificent man.
I tend to especially use the time when he is being punished and silently standing in the corner, with no distraction for him and no possibility for him to "escape" my long sermons, lol, to explicitly tell him how much he means to me and how thankful I am that he is in my life.