tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1118634687557672233.post5546481374170898417..comments2024-01-02T15:41:14.335-05:00Comments on Die starke Frau / The strong woman: angerlawyerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11947031726118465940noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1118634687557672233.post-4397861609369705812016-10-27T16:28:41.266-04:002016-10-27T16:28:41.266-04:00hmmmm, not exactly sure what you wanna tell me wit...hmmmm, not exactly sure what you wanna tell me with that comment. :-)lawyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11947031726118465940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1118634687557672233.post-1118212532564452452016-10-26T11:35:06.356-04:002016-10-26T11:35:06.356-04:00i'm nursing the bruises after i lost to a girl...i'm nursing the bruises after i lost to a girl at kickboxing..Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1118634687557672233.post-30780790322961229542014-11-14T16:48:25.461-05:002014-11-14T16:48:25.461-05:00It's important to let go of things in life. Th...It's important to let go of things in life. The harder you are trying to control something, the more things<br />tend to get out of your control.<br /><br />It's just the way life is. Don't believe me? Try controlling<br />your thoughts. Put a restriction on your brain and it is going to fight back. You may be able to control<br />your thoughts for sometime, but it is going to come back.<br /><br /><br />=================Side Note===========================<br />If you have been meditating (or are a buddhist monk),then you probably know that the only way to control<br />your thoughts is to detach yourself from the mind and let it go. Trying to control thoughts only makes<br />them come back later.<br /><br />=================/Side Note===========================<br /><br />The illussion of control is what keeps people in a contstant state of fear and unhappiness. People are afraid to lose control. Lose control of their loved ones, lose control of themselves, lose control of their situations.<br /><br />And it's this fear of losing control is what makes them weak, makes them unattractive, and in many cases helpless.<br /><br />If you can get rid of this illusion of control, you are not only going to be more happy, you are also going to<br />find yourself attracting things that you want in life.<br /><br />Only when you learn the art of letting go of things, you make room for things that you truly deserve.<br /><br />So if you are holding on to a dying relationship in hopes that you can control things and it will get better,<br />then I think it's time to let go.<br /><br />A lot of times, it's the illusion of control that is making things worse in the relationship.<br /><br />Because in a relationship, you are not truly controlling anything. A relationship needs to have freedom. It needs to be free from control to grow.<br /><br />And if you just let go of it, you might be surprised when the relationship resuscitates and is better than ever.<br /><br />OR if it was truly meant to be over, you couldn't have done anything to stop in the first place.<br /><br />To sum it all up, you should not be afraid to let go of things. If it's meant to be, you will get what you want, if not you will definitely get what you need.<br /><br />- Kevin <br /><br />.<br /><br />.<br /><br />.<br /><br />PS: A lot of times in life you will realize what you<br />wanted wasn't exactly what you needed. And what you<br />needed was in fact much better than what you wanted.<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com