tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1118634687557672233.post5769030817671247049..comments2024-01-02T15:41:14.335-05:00Comments on Die starke Frau / The strong woman: forced orgasmslawyerhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11947031726118465940noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1118634687557672233.post-78886102816637587542015-12-12T11:25:29.901-05:002015-12-12T11:25:29.901-05:00@anonymous:
I just dedicated your comment a whole ...@anonymous:<br />I just dedicated your comment a whole new post. Thanks for stopping by and leaving your comment.lawyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11947031726118465940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1118634687557672233.post-11682208844837765872015-12-12T11:18:06.241-05:002015-12-12T11:18:06.241-05:00@Michael_Michael,
as always: Thank you so much fo...@Michael_Michael,<br /><br />as always: Thank you so much for your support. It is very much appreciated.lawyerhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11947031726118465940noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1118634687557672233.post-47497857416977890772015-12-11T08:44:10.697-05:002015-12-11T08:44:10.697-05:00I think it would be fair to say that I'm one o...I think it would be fair to say that I'm one of the hearts that got hurt along the way and when I read your post I feel so sad for you but at the same time remember my own hurt from our connection and what I experienced as a strange and irrational anger and attack. It is truly hard for me to understand how the two versions of you are the same. <br /><br />A part of me still wishes I could be there for you, be the one that makes you feel ok, but I now know the only person who can do that is you. I don't know why your ex won't talk to you anymore but, more importantly I'm not sure you understand either. I suspect it is because you cannot see yourself through his eyes and so he has stopped trying - that he cannot tell you anymore than he already tried to. <br /><br />I don't think you will get out of the place you're in until you understand yourself. You're not a bad person in any way, and I'm not suggesting you are. But you are so full of what you think is the only truth, that there no space for anyone else's reality, and therefore no space for them to be with you. Maybe your 'rejected little girl' is what stops you being vulnerable as an adult; maybe her need to be safe makes you block your eyes to what others see. Maybe your task is to heal her and reassure her enough that she can let go of protecting and blocking. She sure hurt me, so I'm guessing she is not ready yet to drop her defenses with anyone. I think she needs help to do it, and not from a relationship. <br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1118634687557672233.post-69667736208714126332015-12-09T21:37:34.220-05:002015-12-09T21:37:34.220-05:00Tina,
I am sorry that you are hurting now. But p...Tina,<br /><br />I am sorry that you are hurting now. But please don't assume that you "blew it." I believe that you have that feeling now; I've had it, I think many of us have. It does not have to be permanent.<br /><br />I feel that you have a lot to offer, to the world, to a man, and I hope also to yourself.<br /><br />Take care.<br /><br />Michael_MichaelAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com