a good F/M spanking/caning video

In a world overflowing with boring M/F content, finding a truly captivating and hot F/M domestic discipline video can feel like searching for a needle in a haystack. 

Recently, I stumbled upon a gem that I just had to share. Though it’s a few years old, it caught my attention and left a lasting impression.  It totally worked for me. I enjoyed every second of it :-)

 If you’re looking for some really no-nonsense F/M content, I highly recommend giving it a watch. Trust me, you won’t regret it!

Here is the link, it's on spankingtube: good F/M video

The -not so-secret dynamic

Eric sat in the hospital cafeteria, sipping his coffee while chatting with a few colleagues during their break. The conversation flowed easily among the group of doctors, each sharing stories from their day. But as the discussion turned personal, he felt a sudden wave of warmth creep into his cheeks.

“Hey, Eric,” one of his colleagues, Mike, smirked. “Are you still dating that dominant lawyer? What’s her name again? Tina?”

Eric’s heart raced, and he instinctively looked down at the table, suddenly self-conscious. He hadn’t realized their dynamic was so easily recognizable to his friends. “Uh, yeah,” he replied, trying to sound casual but failing miserably. “Tina.”

The others exchanged knowing glances, their interest piqued. “You know, it’s pretty obvious how much she keeps you in line,” another colleague chimed in, chuckling. “I mean, you’re a successful doctor, but she definitely seems to wear the pants in that relationship.”

Eric felt his face flush even deeper. “It’s not like that,” he stammered, feeling defensive. But deep down, he knew that there was truth in their teasing. He loved Tina’s strong presence and the way she guided him; it was something he had come to cherish.

“Come on, man,” Mike said with a grin. “It’s okay to admit it. You’re a respected MD, but you seem a bit… well, submissive when it comes to her. Do you actually like being told what to do?”

Eric squirmed in his seat. “I mean, it’s complicated,” he finally said, glancing around to see if anyone else was listening. “Tina and I have an understanding. She keeps me grounded, and I appreciate that.”

“Sounds like a classic dominant/submissive relationship,” another colleague added, nodding knowingly. “You might not want to admit it, but it suits you. I can’t imagine you trying to be the boss at home after a long day at work.”

Eric sighed, knowing they were right. The truth was, he found comfort in Tina’s strong leadership. It allowed him to step back from the pressures of his job and embrace a different side of himself—one that didn’t have to be in control all the time. “I guess you could say that,” he admitted, his voice softer. “She really cares about me and holds me accountable.”

“See? You’re not just some tough MD,” Mike teased. “You’ve got a soft side, and it’s nice to see. Just don’t forget to take off your shoes when you get home.”

The group erupted into laughter, and Eric couldn’t help but join in, even if it was through a mix of embarrassment and amusement. “Yeah, yeah, I know,” he said, shaking his head. “I’ll remember that.”

As the laughter subsided, Eric reflected on the conversation. He was grateful to have colleagues who accepted him, even if they teased him about his relationship. The dynamic with Tina was something he cherished, and he felt proud to be with someone who brought out a different, more vulnerable side of him.

“Just remember, man,” Mike said, leaning back in his chair, “being with someone like Tina isn’t a weakness. It takes strength to let someone else lead, especially when you’re used to being the boss.”

Eric met his friend’s gaze and smiled, feeling a renewed sense of confidence. “Thanks, Mike. I really appreciate that.”

As they finished their break, Eric couldn’t shake the warmth of the conversation. He might blush at the teasing, but he knew that being with Tina was a choice he embraced wholeheartedly. It was a partnership built on trust, accountability, and love—a dynamic that made him feel more alive than ever.

Walking out of the cafeteria, he felt lighter, ready to face the rest of his day. And when he got home, he would take off his shoes—just as Tina expected.

The stain of forgetting

As Eric stepped into their apartment, the comforting scents of home-baked German cake filled the air. It had been a long day at work, and all he wanted was to relax. But as he walked into the living room, the familiar rule echoed in his mind: take off your shoes.

But it was too late. He looked down and saw the dark mark on their beautiful white carpet. Panic gripped him. He knew how much Tina valued that carpet, and dread washed over him.

“Tina!” he called, urgency creeping into his voice. “I messed up!”

Tina emerged from the kitchen, her eyes widening before narrowing in anger. “Eric! What have you done?” she exclaimed, her tone sharp.

“I’m so sorry,” he stammered, guilt flooding through him. “I didn’t mean to—I just forgot.”

“Forgot?” she echoed, disbelief etched on her face. “How many times have I told you to take off your shoes before you come inside? This isn’t just a suggestion! It’s a rule!”

Heat rushed to Eric’s cheeks. “I know, I know. It’s just been a really long day, and I wasn’t thinking.”

Tina stepped closer, her tone firm and unwavering. “A long day is no excuse, Eric. I expect you to be mindful when you come home. You’ve heard me say it over and over again. This carpet is important to me, and you need to show that you care about our home too.”

“I do care! I just—” he began, but she cut him off.

“No, you don’t,” she said firmly. “If you really cared, you wouldn’t have made such a careless mistake. This shows a lack of respect, and that’s unacceptable. Do you understand how frustrating this is for me?”

His stomach twisted at her words. He wanted to defend himself but knew she was right. “I really didn’t mean to disrespect you, Tina. I just got distracted,” he said, trying to convey his sincerity.

“Distraction is not an excuse! You need to pay attention!” she continued, her voice rising. “I can’t have you walking around here like it doesn’t matter. It’s your responsibility to follow the rules I’ve set. This isn’t just about cleaning up a stain; it’s about understanding why those rules exist.”

Eric swallowed hard, feeling the weight of her disappointment. “I understand. I’m really sorry. I’ll clean it up right now.”

Tina shook her head, her expression serious. “You can’t just brush this off like it doesn’t matter. You need to face the consequences of your actions.”

“What do you mean?” he asked, anxiety creeping in.

“I mean you need to acknowledge what you’ve done. First, take off your shoes, then get the cleaning solution. I want you to scrub that stain thoroughly. After that, you’re going to stand in the corner and think about how you can prevent this from happening again,” she instructed, her tone resolute.

Eric felt a chill at her words. Standing in the corner was something he hadn’t expected. “But—”

“No excuses,” she cut in sharply. “You need to reflect on how you can be more mindful in the future. I won’t tolerate carelessness.”

With a deep breath, he removed his shoes, feeling the cool floor beneath his feet. He grabbed the cleaning supplies and knelt to scrub the carpet, his mind racing. He didn’t want to let her down again.

As he worked, Tina watched closely. “I want to see you take this seriously, Eric,” she said, her tone unwavering. “I need you to be present and aware.”

“I understand,” he said, focusing on the task. “I’m sorry for not respecting your wishes.”

“Sorry isn’t enough,” she replied. “You need to show me through your actions. This isn’t just about the carpet; it’s about you not following the rules in our house.”

When he finally finished, the carpet looked spotless again. He stood up, feeling a mix of relief and determination.

Tina approached, inspecting his work. “Better,” she said, her expression softening slightly. “But remember, this isn’t just about cleaning. It’s about being accountable.”

“I will remember,” Eric replied, his voice firm. “I’ll do better in the future.”

“Now, go stand in the corner,” she instructed, pointing to the spot in the room. “I want you to think about how you can improve and what this lesson means.”

As he walked to the corner, Eric felt a lump in his throat. Standing there, the silence felt heavy. As the minutes ticked by, shame washed over him, and tears began to well up in his eyes. He felt terrible for letting Tina down and for not observing her simple rule. His mind raced with thoughts of failure and embarrassment, and the frustration of not obeying her rule made the tears spill down his cheeks.

He bit his lip, trying to stifle the sobs. He was embarrassed to be standing there crying, but he also knew it was part of the process. He needed to feel this moment fully to understand the weight of his actions.

After what felt like an eternity, Tina’s voice broke through the silence. “You can turn around now.”

Eric turned, his cheeks wet with tears. He looked at her, feeling vulnerable and exposed. “I’m so sorry, Tina. I really hate letting you down.”

She stepped forward, her expression shifting to one of concern. “I know it’s hard, Eric, but this is part of learning. I need you to understand why following the rules is so important.”

“I do understand,” he said, his voice trembling. “I just got caught up in my own head. I never wanted to disrespect you.”

“Good,” she replied softly, reaching out to wipe away a tear from his cheek. “I appreciate your honesty. We all make mistakes, but it’s how we grow from them that matters.”

Tina stepped closer, wrapping her arms around him. “You’re forgiven. All is good now.”

Eric melted into her embrace, feeling the tension seep out of his body. “Thank you for being patient with me,” he murmured against her shoulder.

“I know you’re used to being in control, but it’s okay to let me lead sometimes,” she said gently, pulling back to look him in the eyes. “This dynamic works because we both care. You need to trust that I’m here to guide you.”

He nodded, feeling a mix of relief and gratitude. “I really do appreciate how you hold me accountable. It helps me be better.”

“Exactly,” she said, her voice warm. “I love you enough to guide you. It’s part of our dynamic, and it’s important to me that you understand that.”

Eric took a deep breath, feeling lighter. “I’ll do better, I promise. I don’t want to let you down again.”

“It's ok, honey” she said firmly, squeezing his hands in hers. “You don't have to be perfect. We’re in this together. Just remember to take your time and be mindful. That’s all I ask.”

As they stood together, the earlier tension melted away, replaced by a renewed sense of connection and understanding. Eric felt grateful to have Tina in his life, guiding him through the ups and downs.

“Let’s put this behind us,” she said, a smile returning to her face. “Now come with me and taste that delicious German marble loaf cake I made for you.”

“Sounds perfect,” he replied, feeling a warmth spread through him. Together, they moved toward the kitchen, ready to embrace the rest of their evening. The comforting scent of cake filled the air, a sweet reminder of home and the love they shared.

The Shopping Lesson

The sun streamed through the windows of Tina's living room, setting the perfect backdrop for their day together. Eric, now accustomed to his role as her submissive, felt a blend of excitement and apprehension. Tina had suggested a shopping trip, and while he knew it would be an opportunity for growth, he couldn’t shake the feeling that today might test his patience.

“Are you ready?” Tina asked, her smile radiating warmth and authority.

“Ready as I can be,” he replied, trying to match her enthusiasm while battling his own nerves.

As they entered the first store, Eric quickly found himself swept away in Tina’s excitement. She moved gracefully among the racks, selecting items with an expert eye. Minutes turned into half an hour, and soon, Eric’s initial thrill began to wane. The constant flurry of colors and fabrics felt overwhelming, and he found himself growing restless.

“Can we take a break?” he ventured, unable to hide the impatience creeping into his voice. “It feels like we’ve been here forever.”

Tina turned to him, her expression shifting from playful to serious. “Eric,” she said firmly, “I don’t appreciate you being so impatient. I expect you to do better. It’s not your place to hurry me. If you don’t get your act together right away, we can make this really unpleasant for you.”

The weight of her words hit him hard. He felt a flush of embarrassment as he absorbed her tone—a reminder of their dynamic. She was in control, and he was there to support her. The mixture of frustration and exhilaration stirred within him, but deep down, he understood the truth of her statement.

“Stand there and wait for me,” she instructed, her gaze unwavering. 

With a resigned sigh, Eric nodded, knowing there was no choice but to comply. 

As the minutes ticked by, he leaned against a nearby display, glancing at the exit with longing. He felt the urge to rebel, to voice his annoyance again, but the authoritative reminder of his place silenced him. 

Every time he felt his frustration bubbling to the surface, he recalled her words: “If you don’t get your act together, we can make this really unpleasant for you.” The thought sent a shiver down his spine, both thrilling and terrifying.

After what felt like an eternity, Tina finally emerged from the fitting room, modeling a stunning dress. “What do you think?” she asked, spinning slightly to show it off.

“It looks amazing,” he replied, forcing a smile, but the earlier frustration lingered in the back of his mind. “Can we go soon?”

“Not yet,” she said, her tone playful yet firm. “I expect you to be patient. We still have several stores to visit.”

The moment she spoke, he felt the authority in her voice wash over him, grounding him. 

“Yes, Tina,” he murmured, the surrender of his will both a relief and a challenge.

With each passing store, he noticed how Tina navigated the shopping experience with grace and confidence. Her excitement was infectious, and despite his frustration, he found himself captivated by her energy.

Finally, after hours of browsing, she turned to him with a triumphant smile. “See? Wasn’t that fun?”

“Fun isn’t quite the word I’d use,” he replied, sarcasm slipping into his tone despite his better judgment. But as their eyes met, he felt the warmth of her understanding.

“Thank you for pushing me,” he said, softer this time. “I didn’t realize how much I needed this.”

“Good,” she replied, her voice soothing but firm. “I want you to learn the value of patience. It’s essential in our dynamic, and you handled it well.”

As they made their way to a nearby café, Eric felt the weight of the day settle on his shoulders. The shopping trip had tested him in ways he hadn’t anticipated—every moment of waiting, every urge to rebel had stretched his patience thin. He glanced at Tina, who seemed completely at ease, her confidence radiating as she chatted about the next store they’d visit.

The experience had been exhausting. Each time he had felt frustration bubbling to the surface, he had to remind himself to breathe, to stay grounded in the role he had chosen. He realized that the discomfort had been a critical part of the lesson, forcing him to confront his impatience and embrace the vulnerability that came with surrendering control.

As they settled into their seats with their coffees, Eric couldn’t help but reflect on the day. “It was hard,” he admitted, his voice low. “I struggled to just… be.”

Tina nodded, her gaze steady. “That’s the point, Eric. I expect you to obey and to support me in what I want to do, even if you are uncomfortable. It’s about understanding your place in our dynamic.”

He felt a shiver run down his spine at her words, and he knew she was right. There was a freedom in submission, even when it felt challenging. She had led him through a day that tested not just his patience but his ability to trust her guidance.

“I understand,” he said, meeting her eyes. 

He realized that in yielding to her expectations, he was not losing himself but rather discovering new facets of who he could be. “I’ll do better next time,” he promised, the weight of the day transforming into a sense of purpose.

“Good,” she said with a warm smile, her tone approving. 

As they sipped their coffees, Eric felt a renewed sense of commitment. He understood that while the day had been tough, it was a testament to the journey they were on together. 

corner time reflections

 Eric stood naked in the corner, the soft hum of the room fading into the background. Time seemed to stretch into an eternity as he faced the wall, his mind racing. Standing there, his heart pounded in his chest, each second feeling heavier than the last. At 55, he was used to being in control—commanding respect as a successful md—but here, he was entirely at Tina’s mercy.

The warmth of the room felt stifling as he fought the urge to turn around and gauge her reaction. Would she be watching him? The thought sent a thrill of anxiety coursing through him. Just as he shifted his weight, the firm tone of her voice cut through the air.

“Eric, I didn’t tell you to move,” Tina scolded gently, yet the authority in her words sent a shiver down his spine. “Stay in the corner and remember your place. You’re here to learn submission.”

His cheeks burned with embarrassment. Why was this so hard? He thought he was ready for this. He had sought out Tina, hoping to explore the parts of himself he had kept hidden, yet this simple act of standing still was overwhelming. Each moment in silence was an invitation to confront the insecurities he had buried beneath layers of professionalism and bravado.

What did it mean to submit? As he stood there, facing the wall, he wrestled with the paradox of power and vulnerability. The corner felt like a physical manifestation of his emotional barriers, and he was both terrified and exhilarated to be forced to confront them.

Thoughts swirled in his mind. He remembered the conversations they had shared, the way she had encouraged him to embrace his feelings, to let go of the façade he wore every day. But now, in this moment, he felt exposed, like a child caught misbehaving. Could he truly allow himself to feel this way?

“Focus on your thoughts,” Tina instructed from behind him, her voice calm yet firm. “What are you feeling right now?”

He hesitated, the weight of her question pressing down on him. What was he feeling? Frustration, yes. But deeper than that was a sense of longing. Longing for release, for understanding, for the chance to break free from the expectations he had imposed on himself.

As the seconds ticked by, he felt the tension in his body mount. The urge to fidget was almost unbearable. What if he turned around? Would it be so wrong to want to see her? But each time he thought about moving, Tina’s voice echoed in his mind, reminding him of the rules they had established. “I am in control now,” she had said, and part of him craved that control.

Time dragged on. Ten minutes? Fifteen? He couldn’t tell. The clock on the wall felt like it had stopped, mocking him. Each passing moment amplified his internal struggle. He felt vulnerable and exposed, yet there was an odd comfort in that vulnerability. It was an acknowledgment of his humanity, the messy parts of himself he rarely allowed to surface.

“Remember, your job is to submit and do as you’re told,” Tina’s voice broke through again, steady and unwavering. “This is your chance to let go.”

Letting go. The phrase echoed in his mind like a distant promise. Could he truly do that? As much as he wanted to obey, a flicker of rebellion sparked within him. Wasn’t he supposed to be the one in control? But then he remembered her warmth, the way she had guided him gently through their previous sessions. She wasn’t just demanding submission; she was offering him a safe space to explore it.

With that thought, Eric took a deep breath, focusing on the sensation of the wall in front of him. It was solid and unyielding, a reminder that he was anchored in this moment, that he had the freedom to explore his feelings without judgment.

“Good,” Tina said, her tone approving. “Stay with those feelings. Embrace them.”

The heat of his embarrassment lingered, but with each passing moment, it began to transform. The sting of humiliation morphed into something more profound—an understanding of his own limitations, and a realization that this journey was about more than just submission. It was about acceptance, both of himself and the complex emotions he had hidden for so long.

As the minutes dragged on, Eric found a rhythm in his thoughts, allowing the vulnerability to wash over him. He wasn’t just standing in a corner; he was standing at the precipice of a new understanding of himself. The barriers he had built in his life began to feel less impenetrable, and he recognized that surrendering control didn’t equate to weakness.

Finally, Tina called him back, her voice warm and inviting. “You did well, Eric. Come here.”

He turned slowly, feeling lighter, as if he had shed some of the weight he had been carrying. Tina’s smile welcomed him back into her space, and he felt a surge of gratitude. “Thank you,” he said, his voice a mixture of relief and exhilaration.

the locked commitment

The office buzzed with the usual midday activity as Mia sat at her desk, typing away while the sun streamed through the large windows, casting a warm glow over the room. Across the space, Jake paced, glancing anxiously at his watch and then back at Mia.

He approached her desk, tension etched on his face. “Mia, can we talk?”

She looked up, sensing the urgency in his tone. “Of course. What’s going on?”

Jake leaned in, lowering his voice. “I know it’s Locktober and all, but… I really can’t take this anymore. Can you please just take the device off for one night?”

Mia crossed her arms, a hint of amusement in her eyes. “Jake, you promised to keep it on for the whole month. Remember? This was your idea.”

His shoulders sagged, frustration bubbling just below the surface. “I know, but it’s been three weeks. I thought I could handle it, but it’s so much harder than I imagined. I’m distracted all the time, and I miss you.”

Mia studied him, her expression softening but resolute. “I understand. But this isn’t just about the physical aspect. It’s about commitment and trust.”

Jake sighed deeply, running a hand through his hair. “I can’t concentrate on work. Every time I sit at my desk, I feel the weight of it. My mind keeps drifting, and it’s embarrassing.”

“Think of it as a challenge,” she said, her voice steady. “Every time you feel that urge, remind yourself why you chose this. It’s about control and connection.”

He nodded, though the struggle was palpable in his eyes. “It’s hard to focus when all I can think about is being locked up. It feels like I’m constantly on edge.”

“Remember, Jake,” Mia continued, leaning forward. “This is about more than just physical release. It’s about growing together, learning patience. It’s supposed to be hard.”

He looked down, his heart racing as frustration mixed with longing. “But right now, it feels unbearable. I thought I could find ways to cope, but it’s like my brain is wired to fixate on it.”

Mia smiled gently, but her resolve remained firm. “That’s part of the journey. And part of what makes it meaningful. I won’t give in, not this time. It wouldn’t be fair to either of us.”

Jake took a step back, frustration boiling over. “You don’t understand! I can’t focus on the reports or the meetings. I just feel… trapped. It’s distracting, and it’s getting worse.”

“Then let’s make a deal,” Mia suggested, her eyes gleaming with determination. “Every time you feel tempted to ask me to take it off, redirect that energy into completing a work task instead. I’ll help you stay focused.”

He let out a small, frustrated laugh, despite the seriousness of the situation. “So you’re turning my frustration into a productivity challenge?”

“Exactly! And at the end of the month, if you manage to keep that promise, I’ll reward you in a way that will make this all worth it,” she replied, her tone both playful and sincere.

Jake felt a flicker of hope, though the struggle remained evident on his face. “Okay, I’ll try. But I can’t promise I won’t be tempted. It’s really hard.”

Mia reached out, giving his hand a reassuring squeeze. “I believe in you. This challenge is tough, but it’s also a chance for us to grow closer. Embrace the struggle.”

He nodded, though doubt lingered in the back of his mind. As he returned to his desk, Jake felt the weight of the device pressing down on him, a constant reminder of his commitment. With each passing moment, the urge to reach out to Mia grew stronger, pulling at his resolve.

The hours dragged on, and he found himself staring blankly at his computer screen, thoughts racing. Each ping of an email or buzz of his phone pulled him back into the reality of work, but the device felt like a heavy anchor, dragging him under.

He glanced at Mia, who was immersed in her own tasks, and his heart ached with longing. How was it possible to feel so connected yet so far away? The struggle consumed him, and he knew he had to channel it into something productive.

With a deep breath, Jake turned back to his work, focusing on the reports piled high on his desk. Each word felt like a battle, but he pushed through, reminding himself of the commitment he made. He threw himself into tasks, losing track of time, but the moment he paused, the weight of his desires crashed back down on him.

Hours later, as the workday neared its end, Jake found himself standing by the window, looking out at the bustling city below. The sun was beginning to set, painting the sky in hues of orange and purple, but inside, he felt a tempest brewing.

Mia approached him, sensing the turmoil within him. “You’re doing great, Jake. Just a little longer. You’ve made it this far.”

He turned to her, desperation lacing his voice. “But I can’t keep pretending this is easy. It feels impossible.”

“Jake, remember the promise you made. It’s not just about this month; it’s about what we’re building together. The struggle is part of that. It’s what makes the eventual reward so much sweeter.”

Her words hit him like a wave, washing over him and grounding him. He nodded, though the fight within him continued. “I just… I really miss being close to you.”

“I’m right here,” she said softly, stepping closer. “And when you finally earn that release, it will mean so much more because of everything you’ve endured. Trust the process.”

As he took a deep breath, Jake felt the tension ease just a little. With Mia’s unwavering support, he began to see the challenge in a different light. This wasn’t just about the device—it was about embracing the journey and the deepening bond they were forming through it.

With renewed determination, Jake returned to his desk, focusing on the tasks ahead. The struggle was real, but so was the promise they had made to each other. And as the day drew to a close, he found a flicker of hope in the knowledge that he could face whatever challenges lay ahead, side by side with Mia.

Embracing Locktober

 As October rolls around, I get excited for Locktober—a month full of fun and exploration in the world of chastity. For those who might not know, Locktober is when many men wear chastity devices, diving into the exciting dynamics of restraint and control.

Why Locktober Matters to Me

Locktober isn’t just a challenge; it’s a chance for both partners to grow closer and explore new aspects of their relationship. When my partner participates in this journey, it brings a whole new level of intimacy and trust. Here’s why I love it:

The Benefits of Chastity

• Heightened Sensitivity: When my man is locked away, the anticipation builds. This makes every touch feel more intense, turning ordinary moments into something special.

• Increased Desire: The thrill of restraint creates a powerful desire. As the days go by, that anticipation makes our time together even more exciting and passionate.

• Stronger Emotional Connection: Engaging in chastity encourages open conversations about our desires and boundaries. This deeper communication builds a stronger emotional bond between us.

• Empowerment for Me: Knowing that my partner trusts me enough to explore this dynamic makes me feel empowered. It shows that he values my leadership and guidance in our relationship.

• Creative Exploration: Locktober gives us a chance to be playful and creative. We can set challenges, try new things, and explore fantasies together, which keeps the excitement alive.

Tips for a Meaningful Locktober

Here are some simple tips to make your Locktober experience even better:

1. Set Clear Boundaries: Talk openly about your limits and what you both want. Setting safe words ensures everyone feels comfortable.

2. Incorporate Daily Challenges: I love creating fun challenges each day—like teasing texts or playful tasks. These keep the energy up and make the journey enjoyable.

3. Communicate Regularly: Check in with each other often. Discuss what feels good and any changes you might want to make to keep things exciting.

4. Explore Together: Use this month to try out new dynamics. Experiment with different teasing techniques, role-play, or introduce new toys to discover what you both enjoy.

Locktober is a fantastic opportunity for both partners to explore and connect. If you’re thinking about joining in this month, I encourage you to embrace the excitement, enjoy the journey, and remember that trust and communication are key. Here’s to a fun and empowering Locktober!

accountability sessions

 I’m super excited to share some news with you all. Starting today, I’m offering private accountability sessions via email or over the phone. If you’re a guy looking for some serious guidance, discipline, and a firm but fair hand to keep you on track, this is for you.

These sessions are going to be a deep and humbling experience. We’ll go beyond just setting rules – we’ll dig into what’s really behind your habits and struggles. I’ll be there to listen, understand, and give you the push you need to make real changes.

I’ll set clear goals for you and check in regularly to make sure you’re staying on course. But be warned, this isn’t going to be a walk in the park. Expect real consequences for falling short. There will be punishments like corner time, orgasm denial, writing lines, scoldings, and even being sent to bed early. It’s tough love, but it works.

Whether it’s beating procrastination, improving your personal habits, or just needing someone to keep you focused, I’ve got you covered. It’s going to be tough but rewarding, and you’ll feel a real difference.

This isn’t for everyone – it’s for those ready to face their challenges head-on and commit to serious self-improvement. If you’re up for the journey, reach out to me via email   diestarkefrau@yahoo.com   to set up a session. 

Tell me a bit about yourself and what you want to achieve. I’m very selective about who I work with because I want to ensure everyone is genuinely committed.

power exchange isn't easy

I recently started offering interactive experiences like corner time and online writing line sessions to connect more deeply with you and to explore the dynamics we all crave. The responses I received were both surprising and enlightening, revealing a lot about what you really want.

The most striking thing I noticed was the dual nature of your desires. On one hand, you wanted me to be strict and take control, bossing you around and creating a strong power exchange. This was to be expected in a scenario where the thrill comes from giving up control.

On the other hand, some of you wanted to dictate how the sessions went, essentially "topping from the bottom." You told me exactly what you wanted and how the session should unfold. This showed a need for control and personalization, even in a dynamic where one party usually takes the lead.

Balancing these desires was an interesting challenge. It meant understanding your boundaries and preferences while being flexible with the session dynamics.

Did I always succeed? Nope.

I struggle with the aspect of maintaining authority while being flexible. For me, it is important to keep my authority while accommodating your input.  It is not easy to preserve the power exchange while respecting your need for agency.

Add to it the element of money and things get even more complicated. Some of you were worried that I would just be interested in getting your money. An accusation that actually hurt my feelings a lot.

Others were trying to make sure I don't scam them. I understand that, taking into consideration the many scams that are to be found online. But then, I am thinking: "come on, man. There are so much easier ways out there to scam someone than writing a blog for over a decade about my own journey, my deepest desires, needs, hopes and cravings."

I made a promise to myself in the past to not give myself away for free ever again. I have done that so many times in the past, I won't do that anymore. That's why I insist on a fee when you want to interact with me personally.

Basically: it's all much more complicated than I was hoping.

If you're still interested in joining a session or have any thoughts to share, feel free to reach out.