A female led relationship

I received the following email recently and realized that I am not promoting my book enough :-) 

I stumbled across your book on Amazon, A Female Led Relationship, and really enjoyed it. The writing is so clean and direct that it makes the story more powerful and effective. I hope you write another!

I am sure you referred in your blog to the Amazon book at some point, but I guess I missed it, so it was a pleasant surprise. I am sure you have been told this before, but in light of all the male-centered fantasy that is out there in the area of female domination, it is very helpful to know that there is a very real, “regular” woman out there who sincerely likes the dynamic as much as I do.

So, for all of you who havent read the book yet: 

Here is the link, go and get it.  :-) 

"A female led relationship" by Tina Engelmann

Time sensitve! The strong woman's detention class , feet pics and supervised corner time

 

Exclusive offer:

Writing lines under the strict supervision of  Miss Tina Engelmann.

Punishment lines are one of the most underestimated punishments in a domestic discipline context. They work like magic and they are perfect to create a scenario where you can feel that certain bittersweet feeling in your stomach that so many of you secretly crave. 

This class is for all of you who know they can benefit from some tough love in the form of being made to write lines. It is a chance to give some loving attention to  the powerful submissive needs that so many of you supress during your regular life.

I know, most of you hate writing lines. However,  for me as a woman, getting the lines is big. In a domestic discipline relationship so much is going on in the head only. And many things just do not make sense. (What sense is there in standing a man in a corner or telling him to wear panties to work or denying him to have an orgasm for days and weeks...) And some punishments are in reality just chores that one of the partners has to do anyway. ("I expect you to sort out the garage today" or "The house better be spotless when I return"). The lines however are different insofar as they are a palpable sign that you consider me to be someone special. The lines are a sign of love and respect because they are so absurd. There is no sense in writing them. 

Most of you don't get turned on by writing lines. Sure, the idea sounds wonderful, but writing them really sucks. The lines take away a lot of your time and only moments after the writing started you will realize that you are really out of control here now.

But for me, getting the lines is fantastic. They are a sign that the man is willing to do whatever I tell him to do, just because Iwant to, or just because I think it would do him some good to spend some time on a desk and to write one sentence over and over again. 

In class, you are expected to be on your best behavior. I want you to be quiet and answer all of my questions in a polite manner. Unless told otherwise, I want you to be sitting and writing.  I will be watching you.

Just for clarification purposes: The writing has to be in your best handwriting and if I dont like what I see, I will make you rewrite it over and over again. 

And yes, you will be interacting with me personally.

Here the summary:

The strong woman's detention class

Writing out lines as a punishment

​Tuesday, December 27, 2022,

8:00 PM EST - 10:00 PM EST 

Online Meetup

max. 5 participants 

Fee: ​$79

Registration at: diestarkefrau (at) yahoo.com

And for those of you who are into beautiful feet:

For the first time ever I am willing to sell some pics of my beautiful  feet. I have been asked in the past to do that, but always declined such requests. 

But now, for a short time only, 

you can send me requests for pics of my very own beautiful feet. 

Each picture is $25.

Just contact me at 

diestarkefrau(at) yahoo.com

And finally, last but not least:

 here is your chance to get supervised cornertime

Being sent to the corner by a strict German woman... It does not need to stay a dream.

If I sent you to the corner, I want you to do the corner time in silence so that you have enough space to reflect on why you are being punished. There won' t be any tv or music  running  in the background and  I want you to turn your phone on silent. The time in the corner is meant to give you a well needed short sharp break.

Let's be very clear about it: It is total boredom and  you will be sacrificing precious time you can't get back. And I might also  make it intentionally  harder on you by ordering you to do the corner time naked,  kneeling and /or putting your hands on your head.

But it will also unbelievably hot and exciting. I will be watching you and scolding you if I see you move. Within moments you willl feel completely powerless and all your submissive tendencies that you usually try to hide so carefully will come to the surface. 

Submitting yourself to 30 min of supervised corner time will give you the feeling of embarassment and humiliation that you can hardly get in "real" life. It will also help you to take a break from whatever is going on around you and give you a chance for a real "time out". 

Supervised corner time

You know you had it coming for a long time...

Duration: 30 min

Online 

Fee: $59

Registration at: diestarkefrau (at) yahoo.com

let's talk about my ex boyfriend for a sec

I was soooo close to finally spanking a wonderful guy again. Here is the gist of it:

Let's call him "Hermes," like the messenger of Gods that be was. After weeks of back and forth between us , we were finally supposed to meet tomorrow and he would go over my knee for a nice bare otk spanking. 

I had been looking forward to this day for weeks. I had had a good feeling with him right from the beginning. I knew he was not playing stupid games with me. I could tell that he had a lot of potential, and on top of it: Even Gregory was fine with me meeting Hermes and "doing stuff" with him. Everything looked really good.

Hermes was not interested in getting am "anonymous" spanking from an exchangeable domme, he wanted someone who really cares about him. That was fine with me. But the whole situation was a bit tricky, because Hermes and I wanted to create closeness and a feeling of "friendship" and a certain bond, without anyone of us actually falling in love with the other. He is married, I am married, but what we were trying to do was getting a deep understanding of each other and creating an atmosphere were openness and vulnerability could flourish.

We were supposed to meet and go for lunch or dinner in my favorite sushi restaurant around my corner, and later the spanking should happen in my house. I had everything plotted out. And I had even bought a nice and sexy skirt that I would wear while spanking him, because he had told me that a skirt and stockings would make it even better for him. Me, being the subservient domme that I am, went and bought an appropriate skirt immediately. I do everything for my guys, lol, I am telling you :-) 

Hermes is a busy guy, I am busy with my minimum wages jobs, therefore it was a bit difficult to find a good date. But we finally found one and I was ready to do my magic. Unfortunately, the day  or two before the meeting Hermes got sick and  we had to postpone the meeting. What a bummer that was, but hey, there was nothing I could do. 

So we set up another date. But , keep in mind, it was weeks later again. I more or less patiently waited for the new date to happen, when a few days before the new meeting he contacts me and tells me that he might come down with the flu. I was so disappointed and got triggered in all the bad places. I felt like I cant wait anymore for any guy on this planet. So I sent him the following message:

Sorry, Hermes, I can’t do this. It just doesn’t feel good to me. I am bending myself backwards for you, but your life or schedule or body seems to say NO consistently.  I like to be in charge and in control, but in our relationship I am neither.  I am wishing you nothing but the best. I hope you find what you are looking for, but it is not me

He replied back to me explaining a bit more about his life and giving me many good explanations. And he called me rigid. And I knew he was right, I was super rigid. But at the same time I felt this  -for me- still very unfamiliar feeling of: "hell yes, I am rigid and stubborn here, and I am not giving enough weight to all the very good reasons that he was giving me, but instead I just follow my own feelings and my own gut and my own needs here."

I went to bed that night and suddenly had the best dream about my ex boyfriend ever. (Yes, I still mean the ex from a few years ago, the ex who I was willing to marry and when I mentioned it to him he ghosted me and has not spoken a word since with me).

In my dream, I finally met my ex again. He was standing in front of a tribunal of women and the women, one after the other, scolded him and told him that his behavior was not ok and that he needs to repent and needs to be punished. 

I remember that in the beginning of the dream scene I was holding my hand in front of my mouth, as if I was preventing myself from speaking out against my ex, the man I still see in the category of Gods. But then when it was my time to speak I actually did speak up for myself and did stand up against him. For the first time since he ghosted me I did not feel as a victim anymore. In my dream I had this clear feeling of: "Yes, you hurt me and you deserve to be punished. It is important that you understand that your behavior was cruel." But at the same time I felt emotionally detached. I felt very matter of fact. There was no little girl whining or begging or trying to please him anymore. It was more a feeling of : "lets deal with your punishment now and we can finally move on. You know that all actions have consequences and you have been evading any consequences from me for a long time now."

It is hard to describe what happened in my psyche, all I can tell is: I woke up and felt unbelievably empowered. I can feel that a big shift happened. And I am super thankful that it finally shifted, whatever 'it" may be.

And to Hermes I say: Thank you for being the messenger. Thank you for allowing me to grow. I do appreciate you coming into my life very much. You know how to reach me.