I just read on a great blog http://herpaddle.blogspot.com/2010/11/insulting-neighbors.html that the author, a man, does not like to see too much plot in a spanking video. And I was wondering if that is the same for you.
It might be a female thing, but for me, the plot is really important. Even in a spanking clip. It adds a lot to the coolness of the clip. And if there is no plot at all, I don`t enjoy the video as much as I would if there would be a (good) story around the spanking.
Why?
I think for me the atmosphere is really important. I need to know in which setting we are. And why we are in the setting we are.
I have been wanting to share a good sermon with you for weeks, from one of my favorite tv pastors, Bayless Conley. I have been trying to find it on the internet, but it seems as if it is no longer availble. Anyway, he basically had said: the 7 things that make a man happy: sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex and a good hot meal. -Not very new, I know ;-)
But he went on: in order to make a woman happy, it takes much more. For women, it is all about the atmosphere. And he was so right in saying that...
If you wanna have sex with a woman tonight, you better start being nice to her during breakfast. Women, or I at least ;-), need an environment that lets us relax, enjoy ourselves, feel loved, feel cherished. Brings us in the mood. The pure act of sex is not appealing for women like me. It has to be sex with a special man.The setting has to be right. There have to be feelings involved. I wanna know what the man thinks, what he feels, what he is longing for, what turns him on. And I want to be sure that he is having sex with "me", and not with a "female person" who could easily be exchanged.
The same goes for spankings and spanking clips. The act of seeing a paddle or belt or hand crush down on a male butt is not hot in itself. I need to be sure that it is not actually abusive. I need to know that the man is submitting by his own free will. I would like to know what brought him in that position. I want to see how he tries to argue his way out of a spanking, with no success, of course ;-) I am interested to know if she is enjoying it or if she is angry with him. I want to see how she comforts him afterwards, how she tells him all is ok now. How she tells him he has been forgiven.
We all know, there is a difference between punisment spankings and erotic spankings. So I wanna know: why is she spanking him? For what reason?
Has he asked for it? Did he want her to spank him?
Did he hesitate in getting over her knee?
If I could chose, I would want to have a lot of information. therefore: plot? yes, definitely! In clips and in real life :-)
I totally agree there needs to be a plot. Check out my blog www.spankedhusband123.blogspot.com
ReplyDelete> the 7 things that make a man happy:
ReplyDelete> sex, sex, sex, sex, sex, sex and
> a good hot meal
Sounds good but where's the booze, firearms, sports cars, football/soccer, films with Arnold, Sylvester Stallone or Bruce Willis? And how many women dreamt of digging a canal from the altantic ocean to the pacific or wanted to put a man (person) on the moon?
Tim Taylor as the male role model ("Home improvement", "Hör mal wer da hämmert") :-)
Sex and a hot meal is good but when full and spent (and slept after that) then men tend get adventurous.
What was the topic? Oh - yes - a plot in a spanking clip.
Well - I guess a part of the problem are bad plots.
The 50 something year old bloke over the knee of a 30 something woman and he calls her "mommy".
The fragile 100 pound girl who overpowers the 300 pound man and drags him into spanking position.
The husband who gets spanked for cheating on his wife. I mean - that's not even funny any more. After that he's been forgiven or what?
I guess it's more difficult to find a credible F/M plot than to find a M/F one can believe.
Apart from that - an elegant/strict/sexy woman holding the cane or another implement - yummy - let her walk and talk before the spanking begins. I'd like to watch :-)
> is all about the athmosphere
Yes - women need that much more than men. Women are like electric stoves while men are like gas stoves. Men are quickly turned on and when it's done they immediately shut off while the electric oven needs time to warm up and cool own.
I've the feeling my post becomes a collection of stereotypes.
> I need to be sure that it is not actually abusive.
Yes - same for me.
> I am interested to know if she is enjoying it
> or if she is angry with him.
Well - I hope she enjoys it.
> I want to see how she comforts him afterwards,
> how she tells him all is ok now.
> How she tells him he has been forgiven.
Yes, yes! It's often shown that she is still angry and yells "Now get out of my sight". I find that sad and disappointing.
In real life a real reason that I believe in - not just a lame role play - is very important for me.
Thanks for the referal :)
ReplyDeleteYeah, too much of a plot lets the viewer see just what terrible actors the subjects in a spanking video may be even if the spanking itself is very real.
Also, it's harder for me to imagine myself in a 'scene' if it happens to be one that I wouldn't likely find myself in.
Hi T Lawyer:
ReplyDeleteHow are you doing?
Anyway, I don't think I have seen a good spanking movie of any kind. They are mostly boring, from what I have seen. I would like F/M movies, if any were good, but I don't pretend to have seen many: I haven't. The only ones I like are the ones I make of me and my husband Evan. (Sorry: those are just for us!)
Evan, on the other hand, likes some movies, but I think he says the best are M/F. I don't like seeing women being spanked (I can't identify with that) so I don't want to watch such movies.
Stories are usually better than movies, anyway.
Best,
Deirdre
I agree build up is everything. In movies as in real life. The confrontation, the charges being read out, any mitigation plea dismissed, sentence handed down, the prepration. There is more to a spanking than been thrown over the nearest lap, getting your pants taken down, having to fetch the Hairbrush, being settled in position, having any objections or resistance overcome, are all essential parts of the drama, and each instance is unique .....the smacking is just repetition.
ReplyDeleteIf this is how it works in real life, why indeed do the movies just cut to the repetitive bit ?
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