ABOUT DOMINANCE AND SUBMISSION, FREEDOM AND SECURENESS, EXPECTATIONS AND HOPES, LOVING AND BEING LOVED...
Unfiltered thoughts of a dominant woman.
Sunday, November 19, 2023
Little gift for you.
As we all know, good "female led relationship stuff" is hard to find, so I decided to create a nice female led relationship contract. And I decided to offer it here for free. Thank you to all of you who are supporting me over the years. 💖
So, this is a subject I have seen in real FLR/DD threads. This contract allows for safewords, which is great. Assuming you allow them, is the man allowed to use the safeword because the pain is too great. I am juxtaposing that to using the safeword when there is a medical issue like an injury. Does “I can’t take this much pain” qualify as a permissible use of the safeword for you?
Thank you. That is refreshing to hear. Unfortunately, not everyone does. So, in a situation like in your story about “Eric,” when the man says “please stop” but doesn’t use his safeword, do you consider that to be an indication that while it is very unpleasant and while he does actually want you to stop spanking him, he still believes that - at least at that particular moment - he can tolerate the pain?
I really like your contract. It considers the essential fact that although there is a dominant part and a submissive part in the relationship both are human beings. A FLR is nevertheless a relationship of trust and love, and this should be the base for any submission. Your contract reflects this very well. We also signed a similar contract after we started our journey. For me personally it is so important to know that even if I undergo punishment ... it is because my wife loves me and she wants the best for our relationship. So I deserve it and bear any pain with pride, because I also love her.
So, this is a subject I have seen in real FLR/DD threads. This contract allows for safewords, which is great. Assuming you allow them, is the man allowed to use the safeword because the pain is too great. I am juxtaposing that to using the safeword when there is a medical issue like an injury. Does “I can’t take this much pain” qualify as a permissible use of the safeword for you?
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DeleteThank you. That is refreshing to hear. Unfortunately, not everyone does. So, in a situation like in your story about “Eric,” when the man says “please stop” but doesn’t use his safeword, do you consider that to be an indication that while it is very unpleasant and while he does actually want you to stop spanking him, he still believes that - at least at that particular moment - he can tolerate the pain?
DeleteI can see this being a wonderful enhancement to an already solid, loving relationship. Personally, I would only request two minor changes.
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DeleteI really like your contract. It considers the essential fact that although there is a dominant part and a submissive part in the relationship both are human beings. A FLR is nevertheless a relationship of trust and love, and this should be the base for any submission. Your contract reflects this very well.
ReplyDeleteWe also signed a similar contract after we started our journey. For me personally it is so important to know that even if I undergo punishment ... it is because my wife loves me and she wants the best for our relationship. So I deserve it and bear any pain with pride, because I also love her.
Thank you. It was very kind of you to publish this.
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