I know some people are curious about why I'm on Fetlife when I'm married. Here's the deal: my husband knows all about it and he's totally cool. He understands that exploring on Fetlife doesn't change how much I love him.
Look, relationships aren't about ownership. They're about trust, communication, and understanding each other's needs. My husband gets that this is about exploration, not replacing him. He knows that I love him., that he's my partner, my rock.
And let's be real - he doesn't want to hear every single tiny detail. I mean, who would? He trusts me and knows I'm responsible, but he's not sitting around wanting a play-by-play of my adventures. Some things are just mine, you know?
Fetlife for me is or was about understanding myself, exploring fantasies. It's not about finding a replacement - it's about adding depth to my understanding of myself and my sexuality.
The best part? My husband and I have total trust. He knows the big picture, supports me, but we're not obsessing over every single interaction. That's healthy. That's real.
So yeah, I am/ was on Fetlife. And I'm in love with my husband. Those two things? Totally compatible.
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