This might be your once in a lifetime chance, because usually I am the one who wants to hand out any incentive :-)
Ok, it´s 11.30 pm here, I am tired as can be and want to go to bed. But then I need to work... Some legal papers need to be written ---and written by me. But I just can not make myself start working on it...
Get with the program, Tina! Or your lily white hiney is going to turn a nice shade of plum! (This is what my lover would say to me).
ReplyDeleteServingB
yes, you are right!Thanks :-)
ReplyDeleteOnly way I would ever even consider it is if you demanded it from me :D! But, I will pretend to be you and write the papers for you....send me all the details so I can get started :D
ReplyDeleteGo to bed.
ReplyDeleteIf you absolutely must, set the alarm and do them in the morning.
Seriously, bed.
can´t go to bed... tried that approach the last 2 days, did not get it done in the morning either
ReplyDeleteSounds like I'd have to resort to tickling...
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ReplyDeleteI wish you could write that thing for me
ajr
that would probably help.
I am ticklish as one can be.
A woman's Derriere (the word 'butt' is so un-feminine, so I prefer the French version) is made to kiss, while the counterpart of the male of the species is made to kick (or paddle). So I would suggest you call on all your submissive fans to provide the necessary documents. I for one, represented myself in a court action with my eX. I even won! (OK that was an exception were a woman's butt (my eX's attourney) got generously kicked).
ReplyDeleteI did get some work done in the last couple of hours.I feel much better now.And I knew I needed to come up with a headline that would at least provoke some response :-)
ReplyDeleteI am reflecting on it I translate the question altogether correctly, since I have desires like this opposite women never…
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Tina,
ReplyDeletemaybe it's a good idea to think of the good feeling after all the work is done - no commitments, just enjoy your leisure time.
Best regards from North Rhine-Westphalia
Jan
It's obvious you feel you need help with something.
ReplyDeleteProviding wanted and needed discipline to a partner is a loving act, regardless of sex. A few here seem to have issues with sex as if it heaven forbid a male should ever spank a female. Obviously if we want to play the popularity game the vast majority of spankos disagree, but even above and beyond this -you need sleep.
What I would do if it were up to me would be to tell you to go to bed. If you didn't, I'd make you write lines, hoping the boredom would cause you to fall to sleep. If that didn't work, or you refused, I'd turn you over my knee and spank you hard enough that you'd be a very tired and sore lady who would need sleep and you would probably sleep on your stomach.
It's as you said in an earlier post. You need help with something, not offers to enable your misbehaviour, nor to deny your needs on some arbitrary sex assigned basis. Your partners AND YOUR needs must be priorities in any relationship. I hope you find someone who isn't selfish.
Clarence
You need a hug, not a kick, when having to work hard instead of sleeping.
ReplyDeleteClarence - I will only speak for myself here - it is not that I believe a lady should never be spanked or that I have any issues with sex....that in itself is presumptuous...I just happen to believe (given my predisposition) that "I" am not the one to spank her.If that is enabling or selfish in your minds eye then so be it, I think you miss the entire point. There are many ways a submissive man can meet the needs of his dominant partner without assuming an authoritative role.
ReplyDeleteTom:
ReplyDeleteI wasn't speaking of you in terms of your attitude- you don't have the attitude of some male submissives that men have no place as a top or Dom- but I was speaking to you in terms of "enabling" behavior.
Basically, unless you she feels sympathy and sorrow for you due to what she put you through when using you as her whipping boy , all you have really done is either set yourself up for her to eventually feel contempt for you, or even feel that your gift of taking her punishment has no value whatsoever- in short, that you are not able to or willing to really help her. I suppose a worse case scenerio is that due to what she put you through due to you taking her punishment, she might feel even worse rather than better. The second worse thing is, as I said, that she ends up despising you. Not all dominant women enjoy all levels and aspects of male submissiveness as you know.
Your solution in other words, only works if it works on her conscience and even then it might not work if she is too weak to beat the bad habit without more external help.
I am not you, and what relationships I would enjoy and value wouldn't always coincide with what you enjoy and value. I'm not saying your way would never work, but it didn't seem to me like that was what she was asking for. I don't think she was looking for people to be angry with her, nor for people to offer more submissiveness, I think she was looking to see if there exists submissive males who can, for love, do something she thinks she might need. I know these exist, and I'm not trying to slam on you. As I said, you aren't a bigoted sub. A few in this comment thread seem to be of that type, and I don't like anyone who claims all men are this or all women are that. It sticks in my craw. I, by the way, am a switch who is more comfortable being the bottom, but I'm not as submissive as ANY of the ones here who've commented. Hey, we all are what we are.
Clarence
P.S. I've read and enjoyed your blog for a bit over a month now. That's how I found this blog a few weeks ago -from your links. Thanks for everything you do, Tom. And thanks to the nice lady of this blog for sharing herself so much with us.