Little gift for you.

As we all know, good "female led relationship stuff" is hard to find, so I decided to create a nice female led relationship contract. And I decided to offer it here for free. Thank you to all of you who are supporting me over the years. 💖

 

You asked and I answer

 In your ideal spanking scenario/fantasy (like, imagine the pinnacle of all experiences):

1.) What thoughts are in your head when you discipline a guy whom you love? 

2.) What emotional need/needs is/are being met for you in this most perfect of situations? 

3.) Are you still able to respect, admire, and perceive his masculine identity, even though he's just been spanked across your lap while unclothed from waste to knees - a rather embarrassing and uncomfortable situation? 

 1:

When I discipline a guy I love, I feel a sense of gratitude that he lets me do whatever I am doing, I also am a bit nervous because I want to make everything "perfect". I am laser focused on him and on how to make a big impact. During otk spankings I sometimes touch his ass in an admiring way, for the lack of a better word. I admire his beautiful body, I admire him for the courage it takes to submit. And I secretly think: I hope he cries. I prefer tears over "the stoic way". 

2:

In my life, I am very often trying to make other people happy. I was a true people pleaser. ( I have somewhat changed recently though). In this most perfect scenario, the man gives me permission to do what I think is right. He lets me be in control, he lets me have the power, he is not managing or even micro managing me. I can do it my way , without feeling guilty. I feel seen and respected and important and powerful.

3.

Of course. I am still able to respect, admire and perceive his masculine identity.  For me, it makes him even more attractive. I think it takes a great guy to take an otk spanking over his woman's knees. I dont think less of him for taking it. Quite the opposite is the case. I love him even more and my admiration and respect for him is growing.