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As an author and coach specializing in female-led relationships, I often find myself in a position where men seek my guidance and accountability. What surprises many of my new clients is my ability to intuitively understand their feelings and needs almost instantly. It’s not something I consciously try to do; rather, it's as if a switch flips in my brain, allowing me to tap into a well of knowledge and experience that I’ve gathered over the years.
Having observed the dynamics between men, women, and couples, I feel like I possess a vast library of emotional insights that I can draw from. Each interaction I've had and each story I've learned about contributes to my understanding of what people crave and how they view the world. This ongoing collection of experiences enables me to empathize with my clients in a profound way. When a new client shares their story, I listen carefully to the details they provide. It's more than just words; it's about the underlying emotions, fears, and desires that often go unspoken. I’ve found that many men are surprised by how attuned I am to their needs.
My role goes beyond mere empathy; I have no problem holding a man accountable and providing the structure, guidance, and discipline that many crave. I genuinely enjoy being there for them, creating an environment where they feel supported and encouraged. It’s almost as if I am offering something I lacked in my own childhood. Growing up, I often had to find my own structures and navigate a chaotic world without the guidance I needed. This has instilled in me the importance of recognizing patterns and rules in people's behaviors. I learned early on to guide myself, and to this day, the people in my life often struggle with my vulnerability; they don’t respond well when I feel weak or overwhelmed.
When I engage with my clients, it feels like I’m sensing their potential and the beauty that lies beneath the surface. I strive to see them in their most authentic form, understanding what makes them tick and what aspects of their lives resonate with them. This intuitive approach allows me to create a clear roadmap for them—a path that outlines practical yet impactful steps they can take to improve their lives.
Being able to intuitively connect with my clients is not just a skill; it's a gift that brings me immense joy. It's fulfilling to help others unveil their potential and guide them toward fulfilling relationships and personal growth. The process of understanding their emotional landscape is like piecing together a puzzle, and when everything aligns, it's a beautiful moment of clarity—not just for them but for me as well.
Nevertheless, I often ponder why this level of understanding seems elusive to many. Emotional intelligence can vary significantly among individuals, influenced by personal experiences, upbringing, and social conditioning. For some, it may take years of deliberate practice to develop the skills to read and respond to emotions effectively.
As I continue my journey as a coach, I remain grateful for the ability to see beyond the surface. I encourage everyone—men and women alike—to cultivate their intuition and empathy. The world could always use more understanding and compassion. Together, we can create deeper connections in our relationships, whether they are romantic, platonic, or professional.
If you're eager to embark on your journey of self-discovery or explore the dynamics of female-led relationships, consider reaching out. Let’s unlock the beautiful potential within you
The woman I married, while dating, brought up the subject of a FLD, it was new to me, I really at the time did not know what I would do. I was not expecting her to come over, she said she would be busy, and so I was entertaining myself in the bathroom, when I soon realized she was standing there. Care to explain young man, I said nothing. Told to finish, she watched. I had taken a shower and so was naked, she then without a word, said welcome to your new world. I was soon bent over at the waist and my bare bottom was feeling the sting of her hand. When she stopped, told me to get to the kitchen, she pulled a chair from the kitchen table, and with a sterness that scared me told to get over her lap, I did as told. She took her purse which was on the kitchen table and pulled out a large hairbrush. Now my naughty little boy, I love you, and this is what you need and will get in the future when you are a naughty little boy. That hairbrush land hard and fast, my kicking and squirming, and when I tried to cover my bottom she pinned my hand to my back. Finally when she stopped, stood me up, I started rubbing my bottom, this was only the beginning. I was told to address her as Mommy when I needed to be spanked. Finally told to face the wall, no rubbing. A couple of days went by, the spanking not mentioned, but she finally asked what I thought about it. I without thinking said I need a Mommy at times, and I as a male need the guidance of a Mommy. She smiled, said few males would say that. Today when I talk about my wife it is wife/mommy, and the marriage is strong, life is good, the spankings continue, no matter where now, or whom might be present. She has added to the spankings of having to wear my pajamas during the day after a spanking if I've really been bad. Early bedtimes, worse is a bath prior to going to work and then coming home and right into my pajamas. I must Thank Mommy for the spanking, promise to be a good little boy. Our sexual relationship is different from the spankings, as she saids spankings and sex is two different things. Jack
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