A couple of days ago I heard the term "pet peeve" for the first term. And I really liked it. I don`t know why, probably because it was mentioned in my favourite tv show NCIS. Anyway, and here comes my point.... I was thinking about what my biggest pet peeve is.
My biggest pet peeve is being lied to.
I just hate it. It`s an absolute no-no. I can not accept people lying in general and even worse people lying right in to my face. I consider myself a very understanding person. There is really not much in human behaviour, words and deads, that I have not already heard of or dealt with in the past. This might sound braggy, however considering the many dramatic events in other peoples lifes I had the "pleasure" of witnessing, it seems an appropriate estimation. I have spoken to - and somestimes defended- arsonists, thiefs, con mans, people who cheated on their spouses, a pimp... you name it. In most cases it was not so difficult to understand the reasoning behind peoples actions as one might think. However, any collaboration has to be based on me knowing the plain truth.
For me sticking to the truth is essential for having a successful relationship. Clients who lie to me can not expect me to represent them adequately in a criminal court and -even more important- my private life partner better not lie to me ever either!
On the other hand I am realistic enough to know, that people actually do lie all the time. So my advice for all my potential domestic discipline partner is: If you ever consider lying to my, you better have a damn good reason. Because if I catch you lying, my wrath will not be easy to deal with. One of the advantages of being in a female led relationship is after all, that the women does have the prerogative to throw the book at the man. And I am definitely prepared to act accordingly.
In such cases the man can not expect some kinky love taps ending in great love making but drastic actions. The core area of the punishment has not to be a spanking, in fact, there is no need for the punishment to be corporal at all. Crucial point is, that the sanction I choose is a real chastisement for the man. Therefore the discipline can differ a great deal from man to man.
However, in my experience, spending endless hours of writing lines is a method which works pretty well for getting the man in the right head frame. No need to tell you, that only his best hand writing is accepted.If the paper does not satisfy my claims, he better be prepared to do it all over again. I just love the humiliating aspect of a grown man being treated like a 8year old kid.
I have learned in the past, that "forced exercise" is a fantastic means of punishing a man. I do e.g. not hesitate to make him do countless push-ups on the living room floor.
And for him getting up 1 hour earlier everyday for quite some time to do an workout on the treadmill will surely be not as pleasant as it is for me.
Furthermore, a man who chooses to lie to me has forfeit his privilege of having an orgasm. I`m not into using any chastity devices but I will be expecting the man to obey my command and act accordingly. He can surely expect a lot of teasing.
If I decide a spanking is in order to make amends, he better accepts it without much fuss. Even though I am often ready to negotiate, once I made up my punishment decision, I am not.
You may be certain that a man who deliberately lies to me is courting disaster.