I really would like to be able to scold properly !
You might not believe it, but it takes me actually a long time to write these posts. My English is, (as you can see easily... ,) far from perfect.
This usually does not matter too much. Most of the time I am able of making you all understand what I am wanting to say. And my man is pretty good at reading my mind by now. With him, I usually do not need any words at all :-)
However, good English skills would really be useful in my relationship as far as scolding is concerned.
I am a woman who is used of using words. I like words, I like writing and I like talking. I spend most of my day doing nothing but dealing with words. And I can be really creative with words. I do know how to attack somebody, how to calm somebody down or how to comfort somebody by using words alone. That is not difficult at all for me.
There is only one area in my life where I can not always easily resort to words. And that is as far as scolding in a dd setting is concerned.
My personal guess is, this is because if I want to scold properly, I need to do just too many things at the same time. :-) I need to know exactly what I want to say, it is essential for me to be really pissed off, it is necessary to speak in a stern and dominant manner, I need to watch his body language in order to see if I am making any impression on him at all and I need to speak fluently.
Doing these things all together and in a different language is still impossible for me. And that is a pitty :-) I really would love to give good scoldings. For me, words are an essential part of a good dd scene. And me, word lover who I am, me of all people I can not use scolding too much as part of a punishment session....
Life is just not fair :-)