After answering litteraly dozens of questions and mails, I do myself have a question to all the men out there.
What am I supposed to do with you right after the punishment?
The reason behind that question is the following deliberation: I do read a lot of spanking stories. Fanfiction spanking stories if you want to know it in detail.
No worries, I am not going to force you to read this stuff, even though this might be a sound punishment for probably all men. ;-) Most of the stuff I read is written by women and most likely for women. And between the ladies there seems to be an understanding that the spankee should be held and kind of comforted after being chastised. For me, until now, such behaviour went without saying.
However, as far as my blog life goes, none of the men ever mentioned everything like this. I´ve been told many times how much a strong female hand is appreciated and how great an improvement in the man`s behaviour can be reached by the women being strict. But not one single man ever spoke about the need of being hold afterwards.
Let´s just say I did dress you down, gave you a spanking, you are crying (hey, this is my blog, I can choose any scenario I wish for), I ask you something very creative like: did you learn your lesson, you say: Yes Ma ám... and then? How are we going to proceed?
Write me your experiences, your hopes and your dreams as far as any post spanking routine is concerned.